The dreaded dressJuly 4th, 2012 | Posted by in Uncategorized
Buying a big flouncy wedding dress is probably one of the most exciting parts of getting married for most brides. For me the search for just “something” to wear has been quite stressful.
Getting married together with my gay brother meant that, even though I’m going to be the only bride, I don’t really want to be “the” bride if that makes sense. I could just picture it. We all come out of the Registry Office and someone may walk past and say “Oh look a wedding”. But it’s two weddings!! It’s just not that obvious for most maybe. I don’t really want to steal the show and it was all starting to get quite headachy. The fact that it is now about 6 or 7 weeks from my wedding day doesn’t really help either.
I had seen a lovely 50s style wedding dress that looked just amazing with a bright pink petticoat underneath the ivory skirt of the dress. Unfortunately the dress doesn’t fit (apparently I’m off their size chart but that’s another story) so it had to go back – amazing or not. It was something that said “let’s have fun” rather than being a formal wedding dress – so the search continues.
Anyway at least I know what sort of style I want now.
Running out of ideas, options, and time, I made an appointment in a really lovely Bridal House in town. There’s another big one across the street but I seriously would have been scared of walking in there.
When I called to make the appointment, the first question was when the wedding was going to be. August I said very matter of fact. And yes, of course I meant this year!! Do some people really plan that far ahead? I don’t think I could cope! Their concern was that they may not be able to order any of the dresses in on time as some of them apparently take 28 weeks to arrive and then they are very likely to need at least some small alterations. Oh dear – this is going to go well.
Anyway, I spent my lunch hour with a lovely lady called Lorraine, trying on a number of dresses. Lorraine agreed that given the boys colour choices (I think we are now at red and blue and blue and lime green although that may well be subject to change…) I would definitely need something with a bit of sparkle to make sure I would actually get noticed. And guess what? I saw this lovely little number just in that 50s style I want so much. At this point I’m quite giddy with excitement and jumping up and down in my underwear and can hear myself ask to try it on…and taaadaaaahhhhh…
I looked like a #@*%*?! fairy! Seriously! All I needed were some sparkly little wings. I think even the very professional Lorraine agreed that it looked a little frumpy on me and that it would be best to get me out of it – quickly. Hilarious. Best lunch hour I ever had! I’m sure on someone else with the right figure it could look absolutely stunning but on me all the proportions were just wrong. Seriously wrong.
Anyway, as I was taking my fairy outfit off I did spot something in the corner. Kind of golden and sparkly and lacy. (At this point Lorraine is nodding approvingly). And this one is actually going to be the one. It was one of those moments where the flipping thing just sat beautifully and doesn’t even need much alteration.
It is rather long though and even has a bit of a trailing thing at the back – what do you call those again??
So I have made a complete U-turn on the dress. How did that happen? Sorry guys!! Anyway I already told my brother and he thinks it’s actually really quite nice that I have decided to go for a full bridal gown. As we keep saying to each other “It’s your day too” and I think he just didn’t want me to miss out on anything. Bless. Gotta love him really.
He’s now feverishly making plans on how to get the husband to be out of the house and to the Registry office without seeing the dress beforehand. At this rate we may even end up spending the night before the wedding away from each other. All very “proper” don’t you think?